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| Springy |
| 03.17.04 (10:35 am) [edit] |
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Despite complaints about winters being too cold and summers being too hot sitting in my window seat at work, there is a week or two that should be worth it. I've been looking forward to this time for almost a year!! Outside my window are these huge cherry blossom trees. When they're in full bloom, they are absolutely gorgeous! I have yet to master taking good photographs of them. I cannot translate what I see with my eyes to the camera!! But I am practising before they're fully bloomed. Right now there are just lots of red buds with a bit of pink coming out. Well, what's a Rosie entry without mention of boys. I hadn't talked to J in a couple (or a few??!) weeks, but he IMed me last night. I wasn't expecting to hear from him again. He and I didn't really develop a deep friendship, so I don't feel much attachment to him. But then I started wondering why he messaged me. I told Chris about this. He said J was still interested (or at least still interested in getting into my pants). Sometimes I wonder if talking to Chris about guys is a good thing. My good impression of them will definitely be tarnished :lol: He's trying to convince me that guys only want to get laid (consciously and subconsciously). Meanwhile I try to point how that's not possible. He makes me see all the battles I lose on this. BWAHAHAHA He's always like "trust me. I know. I'm a guy!!" BWAHAHAA He's such a character. |
posted by: mblog (reply)
post date: 03.18.04 (10:13 am)
I think he's wrong on the "guys just wanna get laid" part. Guys want other things too. It's just that the getting laid part is a dominant force. I don't think you can begin to imagine how many guys would love to be intimate with you.
We can ignore biology, but that's just wishful thinking. When guys go through puberty, their thoughts change. They can't go an hour without getting several erections. Do you think it would be normal for them not to think about sex? From a biological point, it's necessary for the survival of the species. Guys get to the point where they can mate, and it would be absurd to think that they shouldn't want to mate. They may not be able to for a variety of reasons, but that does not mean that the drive isn't there.
Nobody would look at a group of walruses during mating season and say, "those male walruses aren't really interested in sex. Only the dominant male is really interested." It's absurd to think that such an instinct extends to every species but our own. Guys may try to repress it, or deny it, but that does not make hormones go away. There are other outlets such as masturbation, and there are pragmatic reasons not to push it, but that does not mean that the drive isn't there. Again, it's wishful thinking to say otherwise.
posted by: Ladyblog (reply)
post date: 03.19.04 (10:53 am)
I want cherry blossoms! We have more snow here and all my little sprouts are buried yet again! As for the guy thing, use your won judgement... don't let the other guy "dictate" your thoughts.
TTFN
posted by: chailocks (reply)
post date: 03.19.04 (11:36 am)
Reply to: mblog
Hmmm...very thoughtful comeback.
posted by: chailocks (reply)
post date: 03.19.04 (11:36 am)
Hey Rosie...that comment, (or at least still interested in getting into my pants), is a good one....*cynical smile*
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