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| So tired |
| 05.23.04 (11:48 pm) [edit] |
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Today was quite the Sunday. Perhaps all Sundays should be like this... Started off by having a late Saturday night...I went to bed probably around 3 am, and woke up around 9 and headed for the gym. Lunch with Chris was cancelled because he couldn't make 'til about 2, but I had to meet up with Paula and Erin. We went for an 8 km walk and saw some eagles. I took a few photos...hope they turn out! I'll see in a moment. Then we saw Troy. It wasn't bad at all! So no news from Darren. This last minute planning for dates really doesn't work for me. So tomorrow afternoon, I'm heading to the beach with Paula and Erin. And last night, I was informed that Stef was going to be at Paula's birthday thing next weekend. I'm a little choked that he got invited (by a mutual friend, rather than Paula) because... I dunno. What was Carrie thinking? This is a guy I dated a couple times last year, but it wasn't 'til New Years that hell broke loose. Just a recap: Dude is from England and travels here frequently and is a friend to a guy in "the group." *eyes roll* So I met him last summer. We MSNed a little while he was back in England. He was here for the Christmas holidays. He was too clingy. I told him I needed space. He still didn't understand what that meant. He threw a New Year's party. He drank copious amounts of alcohol and was all over me. Then he propositioned me to stay the night. When I said, "no," he retorted with, "I'm only going to be here a few more days." Then he told me to lighten up (as a person). I was pissed off. The next conversation he and I had, I told him to f*** off and never speak to me again. And we haven't spoken to each other since. I still don't wish to speak to him again, but if I have to...grrr...well...what can I do. I am over what happened, but have not forgiven his disrespect. I think that is the only time I really hold a grudge. Another guy, Rahim, tried contacting me again after a few years. I wouldn't sleep with him either, and he called me a slut [go figure]. He said, "oh, it was so long ago...you should get over it." And I finally told J my thoughts oh his disappearance. I told him it was a s***ty thing to do...to just completely drop me without a word for a month. He agreed. I felt better after speaking my mind. I think I'd like if he groveled a bit, too :wink: But bleh. He's no good for me! |
posted by: Lizzy (reply)
post date: 05.24.04 (10:09 am)
An 8km walk? WOW - that's pretty far!
It must be awkward seeing someone again after something like that. I hope things go smoothly.
posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 05.24.04 (10:01 pm)
Reply to: Lizzy
Yeah, 8 km and all I have to show for it is 3 blisters...*L*
posted by: mblog (reply)
post date: 05.26.04 (9:03 am)
That is a bit ironic that he called you a slut. I looked the word up just to be sure, and I think he just has a problem with women.
If he's equally promiscuous, or even more so, assuming he would sleep with you even if you don't give a damn about him, does that make him a slut? No. Are Wilt Chamberlain and Mick Jagger sluts? No, and no. What about Hugh Hefner? No again.
To be a slut, you have to be a woman, so if the promiscuity part is OK with him, then all that's left is that he has a problem with women. And, strictly speaking, it would be wrong to even call you promiscuous since your choices are not casual or indiscriminate.
You've made no secret of the fact that you have had multiple partners, so the issue is whether that's an acceptable lifestyle for you. If it is, then the last person who should be complaining is somebody who wants to sleep with you.
Personally, I think we need to drop the stigma associated with that word, and hold it in the same category as stud. That Rosie is such a slut! Yes, she is hot!
posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 05.26.04 (9:28 am)
Reply to: mblog
*L* okay....
Anyway, I wasn't attracted to that guy, and he told me he liked virgins. *gag* But that was many a moon ago. I hadn't had many partners then.
posted by: mblog (reply)
post date: 05.27.04 (11:47 am)
Reply to: rosietulips
I suppose the best comeback to that line is, "so do I."
I'm not sure why he would like virgins so much. Virgins are not likely to want to get involved with somebody in such a casual way in the first place, and frankly, the sex won't be that great. In general, it's hard to think of things for which the ideal partner is one with no experience, but dealing with somebody who might be in pain, and doing something that might be physically difficult just for enjoyment seems perverse. He probably never had a virgin.
Since I never made a point of seeking out virgins, I can only talk from my limited experience and say that it's not something you rush into. She won't know if she's ready until after you start and you have to be able to accept that. If what I've read is true, for some women the first time is easy. But I wouldn't know from experience since I never had sex with a virgin who found it easy. And at this point in my life, it's unlikely that I ever will since my wife would never approve.
posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 05.27.04 (12:42 pm)
Reply to: mblog
I know virgins make me want to run. But guys think virgins are safe, i.e., disease-free. I guess they would be, most likely...but no guarantees.
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