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| 09.27.05 (6:59 am) [edit] |
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I am completely over the J Man, but why am I still angry about things? I hope that passes soon. He MSNed me to ask me if he was on my list [no, he was removed the night we broke up], and then he proceeds to tell me that every day he's told that I'm added to his "Friends" list, and that every day he removes me. What the point was telling me that? The last time we talked, he removed and blocked me from his list. The next day he added me back and said something like "er, maybe not." Knowing the way he is, he probably moved me to another group. For some reason, he feels too guilty to remove people, so he moves people he doesn't talk to to some other named group. "Noise" I think he called it; I can't remember. Anyway, I said I couldn't help him, and maybe it would help if I blocked him. And then I did it. And maybe the sooner, I'm done with this accident thing, I will feel better. I know the car accident was not directly related to him, but I was driving him out of our way to get him some food at Wendy's. After the accident and the reporting and all that, I felt he was rather insensitive. He gentley reminded me that he still wanted to go to Wendy's. :roll: This is what I learned from dating him (may I not make the same mistakes again): -I need a guy with self-confidence (re-learned that). -I like geeks but not nerds (re-learned that) [who goes to parties and wonders if the host would mind if he checked his email? I still can't get over this whole blog issue. That's a whole post in itself.]. -Choose chemistry above all else (almost feels a little. contradictory because chemistry is all he and I had) -Go with my gut instincts (re-learned that). -I really don't like effeminate men (I seriously felt like a guy dating a girl). |
posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 09.27.05 (9:02 am)
Reply to: DeathByGlitter
I think it's been consistent for me that first dates are a sign for the future. I thought my ex was kind of fruity on our first date, and that feeling never left!! Thanks for dropping by my blog :)
posted by: Cutter (reply)
post date: 09.27.05 (9:44 am)
ok... I'm going to go out on a limb here, and just pose a question (in case you felt like chewing on something). ;)
What, in your opinion makes a man a "man"? What, specifically, is it that you're looking for in a relationship?
You seem like an assertive, intelligent, woman. That alone may threaten the masculinity of some men. Perhaps, around you, they relax TOO much, thinking that you can steer the ship. Know what I mean?
posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 09.27.05 (8:57 pm)
Reply to: Cutter
Hmm...food for thought *L* And flattery will get you everywhere!
I've kind of stopped thinking about what i want in a relationship at the moment. I hope I'd be content with a companion that I'd consider my equal.
What makes a man, a man...That's a tough one when you actually think about it (aside from the physical qualities, of course). I guess I'd want a man who can take charge, and one who doesn't need me to aware of his feelings *all* the time.
I do seem to "steer the ship" a lot, and I don't generally like that role.
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