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Another eye roller
02.22.06 (9:35 am)   [edit]

I was supposed to have a date tonight. I wasn't all that excited about it, given I barely know the guy.

Anyway, he knew I had some things to do after work, so I wasn't going to be able to meet up with him *that* early, so yesterday he called and left a message...Said that he was going to go with a friend to some gymnastics thing after his tutouring gig and we could meet after that.

Unfortunately, that would have been too late for me. I mean come on...the gymnastics thing ends at 10 pm, and he would have traveled somewhere so we could meet up. And we would have had to go somewhere that would be convenient for him because ... ding ding ding...He's *another* guy with NO car.

Anyway, I told him it would have been too late for me to meet up with him after that and could we reschedule ... for next Wednesday. He didn't seem pleased with that. "WHY?!" Uhhh...I told him what I was doing for the rest of the week, which wasn't really necessary, and it seemed like he was taking it personally or something -- this coming from a guy who asked me out and then made other plans. *eyes roll*

Maybe I should have been more direct at some point? I said I'd have stuff to do after work today, and my tomorrow is a very long day. Why would I bust my ass to make time for someone I barely know who can't take a hint? :-p My Thursdays are long...a full day of work, and then a 3 hour-long class. I'm out of the home for about 13 hours. That, to me, is a long day. And then I will have to get ready for Friday.

And one thing he said to me...I guess I have some deal breakers, after all. When I returned his call, it was around 10:15 pm, and I was trying to make some lunch for today. I told him I was preparing food, and he mentioned something about needing a wife for that kind of thing. Oh, he's not picky, so he will eat anything. I absolutely cannot stand it when guys say they need a woman for something, especially for making changes in their lives. "Oh, I need a woman to keep me in line so I stop smoking/drinking/partying ." UGH!

My friends are going to a home show this weekend. I would have liked to go, but I am getting my hair cut. I guess they're all couples, too. Being around couples has never really bothered me, but when one of our other friends declined going because she felt it was going to be too-coupley, then *I* started thinking about it. There's going to be 3 couples going, and they're all looking to furnish their new condos. But they're going out for breakfast before that.

If Cute Butt Boy isn't over, I'm definitely joining them for that!! I couldn't promise them anything right away, so I just said I'd go if I was up. But then in private, I told Poola why I might not be going. She was like, "you could bring him."

I was like, "no way!" (When did the word "like" replace "said"?) 

The fact that I don't want to introduce him to my friends is a great sign for me :D Even though Poola knows all about Cute Butt Boy, I'd rather keep the biz under wraps. When a guy is anywhere near a boyfriend-like entity, I am quick to include him with the things I do.

 


posted by: ruined (reply)
post date: 02.22.06 (11:22 am)

Sounds like your date, for tonight, is pretty self-centered. Ditch him! lol

Better luck, in the future. :)



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 02.22.06 (11:28 am)

Reply to: ruined
*L* meh, he is not long-term potential right now, anyway. I am not holding my breath for anything *L* And thanks.




posted by: beadjunkie (reply)
post date: 02.22.06 (2:30 pm)

uhhhg with guys that don't have cars. I once went out, only to a movie, with this guy I had to pick him up. When he got into my car what does he do??? Takes the tape out and starts fiddling with the radio. Uhhhh who's car is this??? The guy talked all through the movie, let's just say that I changed my number and purposefully not given him my new number.
There is just something wrong if the guy can not pick up the girl. I won't be doing that ever again.



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 02.22.06 (2:33 pm)

Reply to: beadjunkie
BWAHAHAHA I hate movie talkers!! And I hate when people I don't know fiddle with my car controls!! GAAAH! Usually for a first date, I will meet a guy somewhere, but I hate when the ones who have no cars ask me to give them a ride home. UGH!!



posted by: themarina (reply)
post date: 02.23.06 (8:22 am)

i'm still having trouble believing that the idiot asked you out and then made other plans. how does that make any sence???? loser.



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 02.23.06 (8:25 am)

Reply to: themarina
Sometimes I think a lot of Vancouver guys are like that...and to top it off, he sent me a text message asking me if I was free Sunday night even though I had told him I would not be able to get together 'til next Wednesday!

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