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Dudely venting
02.23.06 (1:26 pm)   [edit]

That guy I was supposed to get together with last night...is already driving me up the wall. He has no nickname yet, either.

This morning, I got a text message from him asking if I could get together Sunday night after I have dinner with my mom. At first I said, yes, but I actually have a presentation and some homework to prepare for Monday. So I told him that I wouldn't be able to get together Sunday.

The last time we spoke, I already told him I could not see him until next Wednesday.

But over MSN...

"Can I see you tonight?" GAH! (The answer was no.)

And then...

"Can you call me right now?" (The answer was no.)
"Can you call me when you're off work?" (The answer was no.)

What the hell?! 

I loooove my space. He is too clingy already. 

And his questions creep me out. It's too soon to be asking about what I like best about having a boyfriend, what I like least, what i like to do with them. Why not just start with something like favourite genre of movie?! Hello?!

*heads for the hills* 

And he groveled and apologised about last night, which was nice. But his excuses were too lame for me.

"I hardly see my friend."
"Well, you needed an early night anyway."
"I tried to fit you all in...I had invited you to join us."
"I had to work."

He kept telling me to not be mad. *eyes roll* I am not really mad, but I have no respect for ditchers or people who don't keep their word.

And then at one point, he asked me if I wanted him to stop talking to me. Why do people ask me ridiculous questions? And then he added, "because I am 5 seconds away from doing it."

I laughed, and told him he didn't have to talk to me if he didn't want to.

I guess it is really easy for me to make people feel insignificant to me, but seriously, I barely know the guy. But he still kept talking to me. I may change my mind on getting together with him altogether. 

And while I am venting...there was this other guy...he was on my nerves, too...He seemed cool at first, but then became un-cool really fast. I had asked him a question about his penis, and he didn't want to tell me, and I was fine with that. But then he got all sexual on me from that point forward, and when I was not responding the way he liked in our conversations after that, he thought I was mad at him or getting back at him for not answering my question. Eventually, I told him I was too busy to be dating, and then he told me he didn't think things were going to work out for us. (In the beginning, I told him I was looking for something long-term, and said, "that's great," and then he told me he was only looking for friends.)

But one day...out of the blue, he asked me "are you still too busy?" I told him yes, and that was that. He already told me I wasn't his type, but yet...

Idiot. 

 


posted by: Daikuso (reply)
post date: 02.23.06 (4:01 pm)

men are idiots... I have this one guy who keeps talking to me about himself.. it's so annoying! I can relate how you feel.. i say do what you feel like doing.



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 02.23.06 (5:18 pm)

Reply to: Daikuso
What are you going to do about your "talkative" guy? ;-)



posted by: beadjunkie (reply)
post date: 02.23.06 (5:32 pm)

how bout the nick be clingyboy. yowsers.



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 02.24.06 (8:48 am)

Reply to: beadjunkie
Clingy works very well for me! Ugh.



posted by: beadjunkie (reply)
post date: 02.25.06 (3:47 pm)

I figured it would work well for ya. :)



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 02.25.06 (5:23 pm)

Reply to: beadjunkie
He called me last night at 1:20 in the morning! WTH!?



posted by: beadjunkie (reply)
post date: 02.26.06 (9:38 am)

Reply to: rosietulips
well he obviously doesn't know how to tell time either..I would be looking into getting him blocked he sounds creepy.




posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 02.26.06 (12:26 pm)

Reply to: beadjunkie
And he called *again* last night! I was out so I didn't answer.

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