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Orgasm seminar
03.15.06 (10:56 am)   [edit]

Last night I went to a seminar about how to have better orgasms (for women). What a disappointment. I guess the name and description of the seminar was misleading. Or maybe I wasn't part of their intended audience, whoever that was supposed to be. They tried to include women who'd never had orgasms before.

The speaker talked about things to do. It was mostly just getting to know your body. I had done a lot of what she talked about when I first started exploring my body. But I guess this class reminded me I'd not done any exploring in a long time. One of the handouts we got was a list of questions that would help us take inventory about our past surrounding what we were taught about sexuality. I'll be sure to do that.

My parents taught me hardly anything about sex. They didn't even give me the birds and the bees talk, but they did try to teach me that sex is meant for husband and wife. Later on in life, I learned they didn't wait, but I don't think I will ever forget my dad telling me that my husband will be very happy if I'm a virgin when he and I marry.  (Too late for that...MWUAHAHAA)

I read a lot of literature on sex back in the day...so much that any new sex-related book on the market seems full of the same information. *yawn*

It's just a new generation now, and I think people are more informed and more open to talking about sex (and not just the mechanics). 

Having heard from Special K that their blowjob seminar was not very informative, and this orgasm seminar not being that informative, I'm having second thoughts about another seminar that piqued my interest. I'll think about it. At least it would be one where I could be more informed.

 


posted by: daikuso (reply)
post date: 03.15.06 (9:12 am)

my parents hardly talked about sex with me too, but i have friends now that always talk about sex.. so in way it's making up for the lack of the sex talk. =\ it's a shame that the seminar wasn't that great



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 03.15.06 (9:23 am)

Reply to: daikuso
*L* I talk about sex with my friends, too, but I get a little embarrassed when we go into extreme detail. *L*



posted by: irishred (reply)
post date: 03.15.06 (11:15 am)

lol...Rosie, everytime I come to your blog I learn something interesting :) :)



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 03.15.06 (11:18 am)

Reply to: irishred
Irish, I'm glad my blog is educational!!



posted by: S-I-N-N-E (reply)
post date: 03.16.06 (6:21 am)

my parents were amazing when i was little. they were always straight-forward about sex and my mom even bought me a sex guide book!



posted by: themarina (reply)
post date: 03.16.06 (9:09 am)

seriously, you need to tell me where you get this information because I need to go to one of these things.

As for mom and dad, if I was still waiting to get the story from them, I'd be a virgin until death. I'm 26 and still no birds and bees talk. AND the funny thing is, my parents have always been very outwardly affectionate. Weird.



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 03.16.06 (9:33 am)

Reply to: S-I-N-N-E
You're lucky...Even though my parents didn't teach me anything practical, I got some info from my best friend's mom. She gave my friend this book called "What's Happening to me" and it was a book all about puberty and the birds and the bees. That's when I thought sperm was a gas. I didn't understand!



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 03.16.06 (9:35 am)

Reply to: themarina
The seminar was at the Art of Loving on W.5th at Burrard. They have a whole whack of seminars!! www.artofloving.ca From what I gather, though, you could probably read what they teach all on your own!!

*L* I'm almost 30...my mom is still not comfortable talking about sex to me. She just tells me to not be cheap. I could tell my dad was always horny, but my parents weren't that affectionate in front of me.



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 03.16.06 (12:04 pm)

Reply to: aliciarose
Wow...that is crazy! Or maybe I am too prudish. If I have kids, I like them to be informed, but I don't know how much information I'd actually pass along. No videos. No demos!!



posted by: S-I-N-N-E (reply)
post date: 03.17.06 (1:48 am)

Reply to: rosietulips
I think it had to do with the fact that I'm a guy ;).

I can't picture my parents having sex. It'd be too horrid to imagine so!





posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 03.17.06 (8:48 am)

Reply to: S-I-N-N-E
You know, I've never thought about guys getting sex ed from parents...do they get different treatment?? I think I can imagine my parents having sex, but I *really* don't want to!! I even found their sex toys.



posted by: S-I-N-N-E (reply)
post date: 03.18.06 (3:09 am)

Yeah i think so. From my experience, they don't discourage me from having sex and they keep suggesting me to always carry condoms!



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 03.18.06 (7:40 am)

Reply to S-I-N-N-E:
My mom still discourages me from having sex!! I hope you don't carry your condoms in your wallet all the time...

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