Last night was my 4th date with UnPorsche Guy in like 2 weeks. I think I will go broke if I keep seeing him, but I know he will be leaving town in just over a week.

In a way, he reminds me of the tall J Man (conservative...kind of a chicken...but into me). But with him, he didn't know what he wanted. I know it's not good to paint all guys with the same brush, but I waited patiently for almost a year for the tall J Man, and ultimately, I should have given up sooner. The tall J Man took a long time to make a move, but we never talked about what we were (yes, I need those labels.)

I am not used to eating out so often for dinners -- once a week is my max. How do you tell someone you can't keep going out or else you will go broke?? I could just keep suggesting really cheap places like McDonalds...BWAHAHAHA

His package looked kind of big, so at least that aspect keeps me interested. Because there has been practically no flirting and no moves, I will want to downgrade the status to hanging out as friends. And if there is no sexual element for me, I will lose interest for sure!!