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Another pilot?
04.26.06 (11:21 pm)   [edit]

Why, yes!

Of all the kinds of guys I've dated, I think pilots have been the second most common profession -- maybe third if you break down all the techies. The first have been software developers. Hmm, maybe pilots are second, after all. Other techies have probably been networking guys and hardware guys or guys who run techie Web sites.

I realised that I am like my dad in one way. After getting home from work, I hang out in my undies.

My dad called me yesterday. There has been a rumour going around that I'm broke! So he was inquiring about my money woes. He generously offered to help me out for getting a new car (even though he scoffed at the idea of another sports car). I thought about it, and I declined.

First, I am too proud to take his money. Second, if he's going to give me a lump of money, I'd put it towards my mortgage instead. I countered his offer with that suggestion, but he didn't seem to go for it (even though he did say that after my parents' divorce, he would give me a chunk of money for my place...which he has not mentioned since...)

I'm in a car transition point right now. I would LOVE to get another Mustang...I adore the new ones. However, I don't want to pay off a car in a few years and have to get *another* new car right after that will be more practical and more suitable for families. I am just thinking ahead.  

And plus, I can't really afford to make car payments right now without shaving down my savings. Once my home is paid off, then I can get a new car!! I locked in my mortgage rate today, too. Only another 15 years and 4 months until my home is paid for. 

While my parents were together, my dad secretly bought a townhouse. He now keeps saying he had bought it for me, and he's seriously convinced himself of that. Why would he buy me something and not ask for my input? While he owned it, his mistress lived in it with her kids. The amount of rent she was paying didn't even cover the mortgage payments because she refused to pay more. And then he sold it for some reason. And then he regretted it because he could have been living in it after my parents broke up.

It makes me mad that he says he bought it for me to live in. Because if he sincerely bought it for me, that would have meant he would have chosen where *I* lived while not living under his roof. No, thanks.

 


posted by: scubadiva (reply)
post date: 04.27.06 (2:30 am)

Oh the IT guys I've dated... LOL

I'm with you, I will not accept money from my family. I actually did ask my uncle in October if a check I was expecting didn't come thru in time for my house payment, if he could float me the difference I was short. I asked that he not mention it to my mother. He agreed and then promptly called my mother. Drama ensued. I said 'eff it' and toughed it out myself. I'm too independent (some say stubborn) to ask or even accept help.

So I know what you mean!



posted by: SupremeAnna (reply)
post date: 04.27.06 (5:07 am)

LOL, when I think techies I think pocket protectors, glasses held together with masking tape and suspenders - totally adorable. I love nerds. I know it's a stereotype, but I'm always hoping to meet that kinda guy. Alas, most techies I meet are pretty savvy; totally kills any attraction.



posted by: katz (reply)
post date: 04.27.06 (2:39 pm)

don't you love how family talks about you behind your back?



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 04.28.06 (9:22 am)

Reply to: scubadiva
My mom is always telling me to ask for help. I hate asking for help!




posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 04.28.06 (9:23 am)

Reply to: SupremeAnna
Ew! I just say no nerds...Those are techies who would rather be at LAN parties instead of hanging out with people doing stuff in person! The techies I go for must have social skills :-)



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 04.28.06 (9:24 am)

Reply to: katz
I just hate when family tries to be "helpful."


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