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It's a rash
05.31.06 (10:40 pm)   [edit]

A rash of men! What's the cure?

Tonight, Cute Butt Boy and I started text messaging, and he asked me what I was doing this weekend. I told him I didn't know, and he asked me about getting together Saturday night. I told him I didn't know, and that I needed to talk to him when he wasn't working. He phoned me anyway.

I told him I couldn't "hang out" with him anymore, and I thought he'd say "okay." I didn't really think about what would happen after that. I just figured, he'd respect and accept my choice, and that we'd just grow apart and let things fade. But no...He wanted to know the whys!

I told him I didn't want to "hang out" with someone I wasn't dating, and that I figured he must like this girl that he'd been dating since he hadn't slept with her (she had not want to...). I also told him that I would I didn't want to "hang out" with someone that didn't care about me.

We had a lot of awkward silences. He seemed to want to prolong the conversation...I didn't know what else to say. I said what I wanted to get across. He thought I was giving him an ultimatum -- like "date me or get out of my life." I just never thought about us dating. *shrugs* But now he wants to talk about entertaining the idea?! Tsk. I just figured things would have happened if they were meant to happen.

And UnPorsche is coming home Tuesday. My problem is that I want to really like him. I'm scared of not liking him because of the boredom and the lack of wanting to jump his bones. *sigh* He's a great guy, and he is right for some girl out there. I'm just not sure if I will go crazy! It's too early for him to get on my nerves. I can't really blame PMS for everything, can I?

And National Geographic Shoes -- I would totally go for him if he was single. Poo. Or maybe not. The thrill of the chase is too enticing to me!

 


posted by: scubadiva (reply)
post date: 06.01.06 (1:15 am)

Bravo for you for being upfront with CBB. Sometimes it's difficult having the courage to be honest. What that told him is that a) you know what you want b) you aren't going to settle c) you find him worth speaking up for. Certainly gives him something to ponder...

Your problem with UnPorsche is similar to mine with HotStud -although he's definitely not boring and the desire to jump his bones is there... Still, he's got 95% of the qualities that I want - the problem is the other 5% are pretty big ones...



posted by: katz (reply)
post date: 06.01.06 (2:14 am)

unusual for a guy to want to know why.



posted by: themarina (reply)
post date: 06.01.06 (8:22 am)

Good for you for being honest. It can be hard to say what you really feel but it always works out for the best.



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 06.01.06 (9:08 am)

Reply to: scubadiva
Thanks! I tend either be brutally honest or say nothing. There is no in between!

I thought HotStud was perfect! I recall your list of qualities from way back. Are you debating whether you want to compromise?



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 06.01.06 (9:09 am)

Reply to: katz
Cute Butt Boy has always been nice and respectful. I guess he was a good choice as a bed buddy!




posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 06.01.06 (9:10 am)

Reply to: themarina
Thanks! I always feel better after letting it all out. Unfortunately, the person doesn't always feel better!




posted by: scubadiva (reply)
post date: 06.01.06 (1:19 pm)

Reply to: rosietulips
A) no man is perfect and any woman that claims that one is, is clearly delusional or being deluded.

B) Hot Stud is an amazing guy but that 5% is some really major stuff to me that is uncompromisable territory. Had a lovely chat with him today - he's quite concerned about my boo-boos. Wants me to meet him for lunch tomorrow...



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 06.01.06 (2:21 pm)

Reply to: scubadiva
So are you going to meet up with him?? :) Or have you written him off??



posted by: scubadiva (reply)
post date: 06.02.06 (12:05 am)

Reply to: rosietulips
At first I thought I was on the fence about him because he was so exceptional. And, as I've continued to get to know him better (actions speak louder than words), he's further demonstrated he's truly an amazing guy. I thought that perhaps over time, things would change (that whole 5% thing) but, he's given no indication of varying from it.

So, realizing that, I'm definitely actively out there trying to find others. He's a tall order to try to compete with - I realize that I'm kidding myself if I think he's going to change. And this isn't something I'm willing to compromise on. (One of those black or white issues for me) I think we'll always be friends...

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