How


Blog For Free!


Archives
Home
2008 September
2008 August
2008 July
2008 June
2008 May
2008 April
2008 March
2008 February
2008 January
2007 December
2007 November
2007 October
2007 September
2007 August
2007 July
2007 June
2007 May
2007 April
2007 March
2007 February
2007 January
2006 December
2006 November
2006 October
2006 September
2006 August
2006 July
2006 June
2006 May
2006 April
2006 March
2006 February
2006 January
2005 December
2005 November
2005 October
2005 September
2005 August
2005 July
2005 June
2005 May
2005 April
2005 March
2005 February
2005 January
2004 December
2004 November
2004 October
2004 September
2004 August
2004 July
2004 June
2004 May
2004 April
2004 March
2004 February
2004 January
2003 December
2003 November

My Links
My Photoblog
100 Things About me
My flickr stuff
Are you here?

tBlog
My Profile
Send tMail
My tFriends
My Images


Sponsored
Blog



How
06.10.06 (11:40 pm)   [edit]

Is there a nice way to tell someone you don't want to talk to them anymore because they no longer offer you anything?

It's easy to be direct in saying this kind of stuff, but holy geez...who'd want to be on the receiving end of it? 

Cute Butt Boy text messaged me tonight, and when I replied I mentioned that I wanted to talk to him about his last visit. He said he'd call me, and we just got off the phone. I'm just frustrated. I think I wanted the easy way out. I told him his visit shouldn't have happened, and I suggested we just not talking anymore.

Because what is the point? Am I too cold to think this? We were "buddies," and that was all. We never went out and did stuff, so I didn't consider us to have dated, and I didn't even consider him a friend.  I don't hate him or anything. We have a good time when we're together. Come to think of it, I usually turned down or missed opportunities when he did ask to do stuff.

I think what I wanted to hear was "yeah, there's no point anymore," but he said he had fun talking with me last night.

I hate having talks about next steps. I reminded him that he wanted to discuss things before, but that he did not follow through. He said "oooh, that's right." I guess he is content knowing me as an acquaintance, but I don't know if that's possible for me.

It's rare for a guy and girl to be just friends, but I don't think I could be friends with him, considering I would have wanted to date him if he wanted the same thing. And even though I know he's not suitable for me long-term, I guess I am somewhat wistful. It's this physical attraction and his fun factor.

And I have not brought up UnPorsche to him again. I would rather just leave that out. I don't want him to think less of me. I feel like I am not handling this situation very well.

 


posted by: verucassalty (reply)
post date: 06.13.06 (11:24 am)

there really is nothing wrong with being "somewhat wistful". take your time and have fun. knowing that someone is not the right fit for you doesnt mean that you cant still be friendly and have fun. finding out what you dont want in someone will lead you directly into what excatly you do want in someone else.. if that makes any sense



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 06.14.06 (5:59 am)

Reply to: verucassalty
I get what you are saying :) I've been dating so many guys that I know what I want; I've been told I'm picky. But also, as soon as I realise a guy that I like is not boyfriend material, I tend to cut off ties.

Your Name:


Your Comment:


Click for Vancouver, British Columbia Forecast

www.flickr.com
This is a Flickr badge showing public photos from RosieTulips. Make your own badge here.