Well, after the last couple of days of avoidance, I sent UnPorsche an MSN message to ask for my parking pass back. I guess he just assumed things were over.

Funny I've experienced this with guys where I get upset once, and they think everything is over.

I started wondering if that is like dating myself. I used to run at the sign of trouble, but now I wouldn't completely disappear. I'd mull it over.

So he called and we talked a bit, and he wanted to know what he did that upset him (so he'd know for future reference for other women). And then he rambled on a bit how he hoped for the best for me, and sometimes the chemistry is not there. I told him about how I thought he was going to be an inconsiderate lover because of his "foreplay" and his negative reaction to me telling him that I'd be out of commission for a week, which had been "fuck that! I'm leaving in two weeks," and that he put pressure on me when I had the bladder infection and the cold.

His feedback to me was that I should have said something if it wasn't working for me, and that I should have been more adamant about saying no -- kind of like I should have meant what I said?? I think the bottom line was that he couldn't read me.

I think I should make a more conscious effort about being read-able, but I seriously don't know how to. I don't know how many times I've heard from people that they can't always tell when I'm joking or when I am serious. I don't know if that is something I can change.

But anyway, things with UnPorsche are done with, and I am a little relieved about the ending things part. It will be a little sad, too because he wasn't a horrible guy. We just weren't a good match. And it is still too unfortunate about missing out on a big schlong.