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| Ran out of chances? |
| 06.28.06 (11:25 am) [edit] |
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Damn right! I try to abide by "if you don't have anything nice to say [to someone's face] , don't say anything at all." But there have been so many times where I did want to say something. People are sometimes right when they say I look like I am thinking something but not saying it. Anyway, I guess Big C really did think he had a chance with me again all those times we started talking again after the first (and only!) time we dated. I'm not sure exes really understand the pain they can cause. I am not that great at forgiving and forgetting. Is it ever really possible to do both? Anyhow, once a guy and I are through, I don't want to go back there ever again. It even takes me a while to consider having a friendship with them. I'd prefer not to. Do nipples have sweat glands?? I looked like I was lactating today when I finished my workout at the gym. |
posted by: scubadiva (reply)
post date: 06.28.06 (9:35 am)
As I have had more than my share of 'situations' that required me to come to terms with certain people... (ahem)
I think it is important to forgive. I don't think you should forget. Life is about making mistakes - the key is not to make them again. So don't forget, just keep it in perspective when/if you deal with him or anyone else. I've been fortunate that I've remained on fairly good terms with each guy I've dated - sometimes, there needs to be a lull for one or both of us, but I would feel comfortable reaching out to any of them... But you gotta do what's right for YOU.
I've heard that nipples can have hair follicles, so I would guess, in theory, that they could also sweat.
posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 06.29.06 (10:22 pm)
Reply to: scubadiva
I never seem to forget. I don't think I ever really forgive, either, unless the person actually seems remorseful/sorry for whatever they've done. I tend to say I forgive, and then I cut off these people from my life!
I have a friend who used to be called "Hairy Nipple" :-/
posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 06.29.06 (10:27 pm)
Reply to: FitGirl
Sometimes my optimism gets the best of me and with the guys I am hopeful with, they get more than one try. Then I kick myself when the next try was useless!! I get all suspicious when guys say they want to be friends. Friends?? I think I have enough of those already!
posted by: scubadiva (reply)
post date: 06.30.06 (3:20 am)
Reply to: rosietulips
I think forgiving is more for yourself than the other person. It can be a lesson for you - things don't have to go back to the way they were, but they can try to regain your trust. It might not be comfortable, but it might be worth it.
