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Now there's a bright one
09.05.06 (8:50 am)   [edit]

This guy I dated, the P Man...he needs to forget me. BWAHAHAA

It was pointed out to me that I dated him *two* years ago. He was a player (I can't help liking charmers, I guess), and he pissed me off enough that I just got rid of him for good. However, every so often, he'd rear his pretty little head and start trying to talk to me again.

His charming ways worked on me one more time, and I realised he hadn't changed. So I every time he asked me out (again), I declined.

A few months ago, he saw me driving and he emailed me. He asked me out, and I said, "no, thanks."

Then today,  I get this email from him asking me if I blocked him off MSN. I told him yes.

Probably the best thing for me to do if I don't want someone contacting me again is to just ignore them, but I hate leaving people hanging. At least he should know that I want nothing to do with him.

Several years back, I was very involved with a couple of techie Web sites. They do reviews on techie toys. I used to edit their articles, post news, and be active in their discussion forums. There is a forum member that I apparently met once at a party, but we'd always joke around online. He recently asked me out for coffee. I said yes with the expectation it won't be more than that.

I say yes to dates with guys that really don't it for me because I think it would be good to meet people in general.

 


posted by: TheBishop (reply)
post date: 09.05.06 (12:07 pm)

I agree that some people you are better off without. Don't feel guilty for protecting yourself. :)



posted by: 69whisper (reply)
post date: 09.05.06 (12:26 pm)

its good to be straight forward and i think for wiser people just a hint is enough. but few people need to be told again and again and yet again.
there is no harm meeting and getting to know new people coz you cant really stay away from them all your life and not necessarily all people are the same kind.never know who where and when clicks your heart!!!!



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 09.05.06 (1:31 pm)

Reply to: TheBishop
I don't feel too guilty about getting rid of him, but I just wanted to do it the classiest way possible -- even if he was a huge jerk!



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 09.05.06 (1:32 pm)

Reply to: 69whisper
Or maybe they have friends ;-)
Some guys seem to really like a challenge. This ex was used to women falling at his feet. His confidence was definitely a magnet!




posted by: 69whisper (reply)
post date: 09.06.06 (12:56 am)

some people are like that. now see him falling to your feet. when you deny someone, it is obvious that he/she feels more attraction towards you, coz you are not like the others falling at his feet.



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 09.06.06 (3:21 pm)

Reply to: 69whisper
Yeah, this guy had told me I was unlike any other girl he'd dated. They also let him treat them like crap! I didn't put up with it.

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