I hate those mass additions that people do on Facebook. I have gotten friend requests from people I don't remember or don't speak to.

I got one of those from Fish Boy. We went out one time over a year ago and never spoke again after that. There was one email exchange. 

You can list friend details on Facebook. This is where you can say how you met. I love those details! For him, I said we dated only once and no longer speak. I guess he thought that was a little harsh because he only confirmed the dating once thing, and he sent me a message to ask me how I was doing.

If I am not interested in a guy, I don't want to be friends after we date. Anyway, our date was okay...nothing earth shattering, but I would have been okay going out with him again. (He also creeped me out even before we had our first date because he was telling me was smitten, etc. and we hardly knew each other.) 

After the date, I sent him an email and thanked him for the lovely afternoon and suggested getting together again. It took him a while to reply and he said he was debating about whether to see me again, and finally decided no (something about deciding that I wasn't what he was looking for long-term). And he added the bit about being friends. That is something I'd never suggest, and against my better judgment, I was like "okay." 

Needless to say, we never became friends and never spoke.

And to get a message from him just pisses me off. Insincere people piss me off. I have no interest in reconnecting -- not even in a small talk kind of way. Waste of time.