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Death certificate saga continues
04.03.08 (7:48 am)   [edit]

For a moment, I thought my dad's death certificate was ready, but alas...

So the paperwork made it to Beijing and has come back. Apparently someone was trying to get a hold of me because these documents (document?) will be couriered to me. I thought the certificate was ready!! Unfortunately, it's just more stuff I have to to the Chinese embassy in Vancouver to get certified. Then I have to courier it back.

And then I think I wait another month for it to come back?! Whatever I am getting endorsed/certified is going back to Beijing. I hope it doesn't take a month. My dad's bills are piling up.

His estate keeps getting bills, but there is no estate yet. Until I get that death certificate, there will be no estate. Hopefully I will get it by May.

The Chinese embassy here is open from 9 am to 1 pm, Mondays through Fridays. I hope I can get that all sorted out next week. I can't be taking care of this stuff when I'm starting a new job!!

My mom was a little frustrated with the agent who is handling this stuff. The communication barrier has been a small obstacle. Thank goodness I can understand some Chinese. My dad's gf wanted me to call the agent to discuss the latest matters, but I didn't want to talk to him. Everyone just assumes I am completely fluent!! I felt these matters were too important to pretend I knew exactly what he was talking about, so I told my mom to phone him. We had to give him the address for couriering the stuff. He asked my mom it was possible to give him a Chinese address!! Obviously his English is worse than my Chinese.

He didn't want to write it down when they were on the phone, so my mom said she would fax him the address...but he had no fax machine? He asked her to call him back in 15 minutes so he could get her a fax number. I am going to be so relieved when this saga is OVER! 

 


posted by: ggirl (reply)
post date: 04.03.08 (12:09 pm)

It just goes on and on and on and on. I'll be so happy for you when you can stop chasing paper. Pamper yourself, okay?



posted by: katz (reply)
post date: 04.03.08 (2:23 pm)

wow I'm glad my dad's stuff was easy to deal with. Hope this saga ends soon for you.



posted by: wolfen (reply)
post date: 04.03.08 (2:51 pm)

I'm sorry it's so long and drawn out...all these procedures and paperwork have to be wearing your patience thin and frazzling your nerves. I hope you do eventually get to have a massage, it sounds like you could really use one. :(



posted by: FinalyFree (reply)
post date: 04.03.08 (3:00 pm)

Sheesh! What a pain. Hopefully this latest snafu will be the last :)



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 04.04.08 (4:20 pm)

Reply to: ggirl
6 more days and I will get some pampering!



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 04.04.08 (4:20 pm)

Reply to: katz
Did you sister help out lots when your dad passed? It would have been easy if my dad hadn't died overseas!




posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 04.04.08 (4:21 pm)

Reply to: wolfen
Thanks...I am a *little* tense! But in a few months, this should be all over and I can just...wait some more. BWAHAHAA



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 04.04.08 (4:22 pm)

Reply to: FinalyFree
Well, things are getting there. My latest obstacle is finding my dad's tax returns from the last couple of years. I know he has this stuff somewhere at his place, but I have no idea where to look. I've found all his other papers...but where are the tax returns?!?



posted by: wolfen (reply)
post date: 04.04.08 (8:31 pm)

...maybe you could request them from the Canadian government?



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 04.05.08 (5:09 pm)

Reply to: wolfen
Apparently, I can! My accountant uncle said it's not a problem to access old tax returns...but what about the privacy thing?!



posted by: wolfen (reply)
post date: 04.05.08 (9:39 pm)

I think that they make an exception because in cases like this it is easier to go to the government and get the information than to try and figure out his filing system. I suspect that unfortunately many people go through some confusion when trying to get the estate in order...even when it's a "typical" scenario, which yours clearly isn't.



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 04.08.08 (10:24 am)

Reply to: wolfen
Getting my dad's old tax returns won't be a problem, but I am still waiting for his death certificate! *taptaptap*



posted by: wolfen (reply)
post date: 04.08.08 (11:10 am)

Still? Wow...



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 04.08.08 (1:08 pm)

Reply to: wolfen
It is going to be a looooong wait.

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