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posted by: bawdy (reply) post date: 06.10.09 (1:30 pm) Unconditional support in everything he does regardless? posted by: rosietulips (reply) post date: 06.10.09 (1:47 pm) Reply to: bawdy Yes, pretty much...unless it's harmful to himself or others, I guess. I do have difficulty wrapping my head around her suggestion because not only do I offer unconditional support, I'm not supposed to offer advice unless asked. I never thought of myself as the advice-doling kind of person anyway, but I feel like I she is asking me to stifle everything that's on my mind. posted by: barnabus1 (reply) post date: 06.10.09 (3:19 pm) To my untrained eye...she's trying to make you over..into somebody else! Change is not always possible within us...even when we desperately want it!! posted by: rosietulips (reply) post date: 06.10.09 (3:27 pm) Reply to: barnabus1 I know people ultimately can't change, but habits can...that's all I can say! posted by: bawdy (reply) post date: 06.11.09 (12:37 pm) Reply to: rosietulips Hmmm..it sounds like she's made a judgment of you as overbearing. Some people never ask for advice, and just because you offer advice, it doesn't mean you are necessarily telling him what to do. Does she also criticize him for things he should or shouldn't do? posted by: rosietulips (reply) post date: 06.11.09 (12:52 pm) Reply to: bawdy Yeah, she told me I had too many rules. But I've never said Mr. Nick can't do this or can't do that. I've never said anything! I've made note of what I like and don't like... She strongly suggested that he speak his mind more often. She even offered him solo counselling sessions if he needed help on being able to express himself. posted by: bawdy (reply) post date: 06.12.09 (12:36 pm) Reply to: rosietulips Do you feel she's taking sides and villain-izing (new word!) you? Constructive criticism for him, admonishment for you! posted by: rosietulips (reply) post date: 06.12.09 (1:15 pm) Reply to: bawdy I think she is trying to remain impartial but I was thinking about what she said this morning and that she may not have a clear view of who I am! In our sessions, Mr. Nick comes across as someone who does not speak up for himself ever and then I come across as someone who is rigid and calls all the shots. posted by: bawdy (reply) post date: 06.13.09 (12:49 pm) Reply to: rosietulips Women do call all the shots because they close the playpen if they don't get their way! posted by: rosietulips (reply) post date: 06.14.09 (8:02 am) Reply to: bawdy I feel like closing down the playpen for good!! posted by: bawdy (reply) post date: 06.14.09 (12:17 pm) Reply to: rosietulips That's a sure way to get him to speak up! |
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