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Don't make promises you can't keep!
06.29.09 (5:29 pm)   [edit]

My mom called me to tell me a friend of hers just sold his house and has to be out by July 15. Woo, two weeks to pack up a whole house. Then she tells me that she promised him that I had many boxes to give him.

It is true I do have a number of boxes, but not to give him! I've moved all the good boxes that I plan on re-using one day into my old storage locker. At this point, it's not convenient for me to go there because the rental property manager has my key. I told my mom I had 3 boxes around that I could spare. She said that wasn't good enough, and gave me a "but I already promised him! What am I supposed to tell him??"

I hope she figures it out!

That's my mom...if something doesn't happen that ways she envisions, forget about a compromise!

I told her I had three boxes, and then she assumed I wouldn't be unpacking any more boxes any time soon. I let her believe her assumption. I guess waiting until after this upcoming weekend isn't good enough.

 


posted by: PirateGirl (reply)
post date: 06.29.09 (6:07 pm)

remember it's a promice SHE made - not YOU! - If she brings it up again just repeat that you only have the three and no more - sorry - and maybe SHE could look into a place that ofers more boxes - *around here you can sometimes get free boxes from supermarkets and the like.



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 06.30.09 (9:21 am)

Reply to: PirateGirl
Geez, this morning I told my mom I had 5 boxes to give her, which is 2 more than I originally said, and she still said "that's it??" I I told her to go buy some more, then. We can get free boxes from supermarkets as well! But she wanted my boxes. I guess it's true I won't be needing them for a while, but at some point, I am sure I will need boxes when I move again. She actually took me seriously when I said I was never going to move again.



posted by: auntconi (reply)
post date: 06.30.09 (12:04 pm)

What a shame! And all this from 'moving boxes' ~ and it is not your responsibility to provide them, nor is it your mother's ~ why can't she just be thankful for what you are offering? I doubt that her friend would want all this 'discussion' over boxes for him to move!



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 06.30.09 (12:10 pm)

Reply to: auntconi
My mom is not usually thankful for anything, especially if she asks for something. She feels it is her right to get what she wants. I guess that is a confident way of looking at things!
But I guess she also didn't want to let down this friend, but oh welll...I scolded her again for making promises about my things that she assumed she could keep!



posted by: bawdy (reply)
post date: 06.30.09 (12:51 pm)

She shouldn't have made such a promise without asking you first. I'm sure the guy will manage.



posted by: PirateGirl (reply)
post date: 06.30.09 (4:43 pm)

Reply to: rosietulips

LOL! - Oh well - what can you do? - I think you're handling it just fine - and you can only do what you can only do - Arrrr! ;)




posted by: Raisha (reply)
post date: 08.24.09 (5:12 am)

my mom can't keep her promise to buy me a comic book



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 08.24.09 (1:58 pm)

Reply to: Raisha
Maybe she needs a reminder...


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