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| Hello, liar |
| 08.03.04 (12:50 pm) [edit] |
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I was out for lunch with Patrick today. The conversation just never really flows. I think that is a bad sign. It was kind of like that with Darren. Anyway, I found out Patrick's real age. I just don't know why he was dishonest about it before. Okay, so he 26 and *not* 27. That is not a big deal. But having him fib to me *is* a big deal!! I want to bring it up to him, and find out why he was dishonest. I was trying to think of ways to bring it up and was going to ask for advice (still am, I guess) as to how to bring it up. But I will probably just spring an "so why did you feel you couldn't be truthful about your age?" I know, I know...avoid using "you," so I don't seem confrontational, but I want to be confrontational!! I already have trust issues, and he and I got off to a dishonest start. Every little thing seems magnified!! |
posted by: SusanofPudlin (reply)
post date: 08.03.04 (12:56 pm)
What difference would it make? Regardless of what answer he provided, he obviously read you right when he figured out that age is an issue with you. And why is it such an issue?
If the conversation is not flowing, aren't you both kind of responsible? And there is a lot to be said for comfortable silences.
Am I overstepping here???? Are you looking for reasons to dump him????
posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 08.03.04 (3:09 pm)
Reply to: SusanofPudlin
:) I don't think age is all that important. I'd always been honest with him from Day 1. My issue is with him dancing around the truth. Seems like most men I date are a little younger than I, usually.
And yes, two people are responsible in a conversation. The silences are fairly comfortable for me and him. I have a hard time thinking up open-ended questions.
No, you're not overstepping at all!! I am always quick to look for reasons to flee from a relationship. I have been trying hard over the last year to be more patient and less... anal...*L*
posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 08.03.04 (3:12 pm)
Reply to: aliciarose
I'm not sure why he'd fib about his age; I don't think it was an accident. But now if I ask him why he lied about it, it will just look like I am hung up on age - when it's really the lying part that I am hung up on.
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