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posted by: lynne (reply) post date: 08.19.04 (10:59 am) It sounds like a pretty good place to me. Dont let one jerk's letter make you feel badly. posted by: mblog (reply) post date: 08.19.04 (11:32 am) He probably got that idea because of his experience. When people are treated poorly, they notice. They also tend to overestimate the extent to which another group mistreats them, and that group tends to underestimate it. Suppose for instance a city is 10% black, and 90% of the remaining citizens are not racists. Chances are that when they talk among themselves, race does not come up very much, and the small percentage who are racist tend to be guarded with their comments because they know that they will not be well perceived. Most people would conclude based on those experiences that racism barely exists. They don't see it and rarely hear about it. But what happens if you are one of the blacks in that city? 90% of the others are not racist, so one out of 10 is racist. If you walk down the street and pass 20 people, you have passed two racists already. Chances are you encounter these people on a regular, if not daily basis. It happens when you go into stores or when you are minding your own business or when you are driving down the street and somebody calls you a nigger. So it's not surprising that you would conclude that racism is a major problem and is widespread and it's amazing that white people can be blind to it. In the case of Chinese immigrants, there's another problem. The culture is different. In the neighborhood where I grew up, there was no significant Chinese population. Then Chinese started moving in, and people welcomed them. They started buying businesses, and the population grew larger. Now when lifelong residents of the neighborhood go shopping, they are made to feel unwelcome in their own neighborhood. They go into the stores they had shopped in for their whole lives, and the signs are now in Chinese. Nobody greets them when they come in. There is always some old person staring at them, but that person will greet the Chinese customers only. If they ask where something is, they will get a blank look and probably not get an answer. Is it surprising that people who experience that feel unwelcome in their own neighborhoods? Another problem is the restaurants. They have different menus and different standards for their Chinese and non-Chinese customers. The government keeps explaining that what they are doing is illegal, but it does not seem to help. One agent, who is Chinese, goes into these places and tries to explain. "Suppose that you and your wife were going to celebrate something. You decided to go to a nice American restaurant. You order and the food is good. But you notice that people at the other tables who ordered the same thing are getting an extra dish that you did not get. You ask why, and you are told that it's because you are Chinese. How would you feel?" Despite that argument, and a clear statement that they are breaking the law, many of these restaurants continue to discriminate against non-Chinese customers. So it may be that the percentage of Chinese who are racist, culturally insensitive, or just don't have enough of a grasp of English, represents a small percentage of Chinese immigrants. But when people see themselves mistreated every day, it's no surprise that they feel unwelcome. posted by: SusanofPudlin (reply) post date: 08.22.04 (6:35 pm) I second what Lynne said. And with the new Tblog buy one comment, get one free, I will automatically be thirding it as well. posted by: SusanofPudlin (reply) post date: 08.22.04 (6:35 pm) I second what Lynne said. And with the new Tblog buy one comment, get one free, I will automatically be thirding it as well. |
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