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| Please let this week be over |
| 10.20.04 (1:46 pm) [edit] |
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Not that I have anything going on aside from this weekend's plans, but I can't stand this moodiness. Next week I will be fine!! I got another e-mail from J...he doesn't expect responses anymore, but he's still going to send me bi-weekly updates on his life. I guess it's kind of nice to get them, but I still have no plans to write him back. I hate hearing bits and pieces of W's love life...because it's going well. I am still glad for him, but I don't want to hear about it. I got mad at the P Man last night because he breezed into my place without a salutation and went straight for the TV. I am sure I overreacted a bit, and could have expressed my displeasure better. His explanation was baseball was at a very exciting moment. He felt that was more important than having some semblance of manners in someone else's home. On the other hand, he can make himself at home in my home...to a point. I don't want him feeling like he has to ask before using something (even though it still perturbs me when he raids my fridge :x ) So I was mad because of the way he entered my home. And then he was mad (or something...just not cheerful) because I didn't explicity express why I was mad the first time he asked me what was wrong. To him, he had to "pry" it out of me. I think the incident was all too Mars vs. Venus for me. Then he left early. I kind of lost the mood for hanging out with him, but I was still disappointed we didn't really hang out. I would have liked to chit chat and catch up on our day. |
posted by: trina (reply)
post date: 10.20.04 (3:09 pm)
It's funny how women (and I definitely include myself) take offense to those types of things and then guys don't have the slightest clue that they've done something wrong. LOL Mostly it's just a guy thing, but it has alot to do with manners too.
I get mad when Jonathan does something rude, but I have learned to go ahead and tell him that it ticked me off rather than let it boil inside me all evening, or even into the next day. I used to think, "Well he should know why I am mad and if he can't figure it out, the silent treatment might give him a clue." Men are so different from us that we have to basically tell them what and how we feel because they aren't as emotional (or manner driven LOL) as we are.
I am sure you know all this but your post just proves the point :)
posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 10.20.04 (4:01 pm)
Reply to: trina
*L* At least I can look back and laugh. I am trying to express myself; it's always been hard for me. He asked me to speak my mind right away as a favour to him. I just have to remember I said I'd do it!
posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 10.20.04 (4:02 pm)
Reply to: aliciarose
I've definitely learned a lesson from this experience. I was talking to a guy friend about this. He said if he had made plans with a girlfriend and some game went into overtime, he'd call and say, "um...I'm going to have to postpone." Men...*L*
posted by: Ryan (reply)
post date: 10.21.04 (2:49 am)
Haha! That's exactly how my gf is, she'll notice something and then not tell me what I did. I've learned to be more sensitive, but as you all said, it does go against my programming. ;)
posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 10.21.04 (12:21 pm)
Reply to: Ryan
It'd be so easy if men could just read our minds...and act accordingly!!
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