I know what I said. I told him I'd give him one more chance. Um...maybe he's used it up now. I don't know what to do (aside from actually following people's advice, anyway :lol:)
*sigh**sigh**sigh*
I was so excited to be having a Saturday night date with the P Man. Chances for those have been really slim considering there usually seems to be something going on (usually for me) on Saturday nights. Anyhow...perturbed that he hadn't called me his morning, I called him in the afternoon to see what was going on so I could at least have some sort of idea when to start getting ready.
He was at home...then said he had some bad news, and that he might have to go flying tonight. Might have to always turns into will (even though he said he didn't have to...but of course he'd choose to, and I wouldn't want him to turn down the opportunity. Don't ask me why.) He said he'd call me later when he knew for sure.
So he called and left a message while I was in the shower...said he was getting ready to go the airport and to call him back. He asked me if I wanted to go with him (he had suggested that when I talked to him earlier, too), and then he said he probably wouldn't take long.
The reasons why I am upset over this:
1. He asked me out, and he's bailed AGAIN. There could other and better things that I can be doing. My time is precious to me. And I am supposed to be waiting around for him?! For a date that he made with ME?
2. If he knew he might have to fly, he should have told me sooner and/or suggest doing something earlier in the day!!
3. He asked me to go flying with him, and then left it at that. Why the hell bother asking if you're not going to follow through with it??
I am at my wit's end. I know what the logical thing is to do *L*
*sigh*
I returned his earlier phone call to let him know I got his message (as requested) and that I would go with him. But 2 hours later, he's not called back. In those two hours, I made other plans. And I also just left another voice mail speaking my mind. I just told him that I was mad that he bailed on me, and that he had asked me to go with him and then didn't follow up. Then I told him I didn't want to hear from him unless it was about getting his socks back. And I told him not to call me tonight because I had plans already.
posted by: Ryan (reply)
post date: 11.14.04 (6:09 pm)
I still can't believe how patient and understanding you are! That's a whole lotta bails...