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| The G saga |
| 03.27.05 (5:02 pm) [edit] |
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I should be embarrassed to post this, but hey, I'm supposed to write as if no one else reads this. So last night, I didn't go anywhere. I didn't even go out to the strip club after I gave up on the G Man. Dance practice tuckered me out, and I didn't really want to go to the club alone even though I knew people I knew would be there. So I watched a lot of Brady Bunch, and I read. I am glad I got a lot of rest this weekend. So...I'm not sure what happened with the G Man and his woman. This morning he had sent me an email apologising and told me that he and his gf probably wouldn't be talking for much longer. That makes me feel...indifferent? I don't feel guilty. I'm not ecstatic. Well, maybe I feel a little gleeful, but I'm not getting my hopes up. I was wondering how serious things were for the two of them because of the way he talked to me. Maybe he talks to all girls like that *shrugs* but if he wasn't interested in me, why would he be talking to me if he has a gf? It's not like he and I are old friends; he barely knows me. He told his gf that he had a thing for me. If I were her, I would appreciate his honesty and probably tell him to hang out with me, and then dump him. I think if he really cared about her, he would respect her wishes and not hang out with me. However, I think there is always a fine line with these kind of things. I look at my parents when I think about these things. My dad refused to end a "friendship" with another woman, and my mom never got over that. And I think his marriage should have been important enough for him to do it. On the other hand, if it hadn't been a sexual "friendship," then of course, my mom should have been more open-minded. So, where was I going with this? I don't mind if my boyfriends have female friends. But I would mind if they started making new female friends. I don't think guys make friends with girls unless they're attracted to them. But then again, I hope I'd trust my boyfriends. Was G Man's gf insecure? Didn't trust him? Jealous of someone she did not know? I don't know. I don't think they've sorted it all out yet. Time to do some practising on the pole now. And here's my Easter tip for you -- Green Giant carrots in butter sauce are disgusting, unless you like salty, goopy sauce. |
posted by: rinna (reply)
post date: 03.27.05 (5:32 pm)
Jealousy is something built-in. It's ridiculous, because I used to be fiercely jealous, then I realised it was much ado about nothing -- there should be trust -- so I got over it. Trust was never abused in my marriage, but now that I'm doing it alone, I am EXTREMELY cautious of anybody new coming into my life.
I think you're completely fair in questioning how genuine G really is.
posted by: lynne (reply)
post date: 03.27.05 (9:24 pm)
as a woman who has a lot of male friends who arent in the least attracted to her, i know for sure that men often choose to become friends with women to whom they are not attracted.
i cant speak to the idea that a person should give up friendships in favor of a romantic relationship. i guess on the one hand, i feel that a person should make their partner feel like they are important enough to give up friendships when asked and on the other hand, it is pretty shitty for someone to ask another person to give up platonic friendships.
posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 03.28.05 (8:53 am)
Reply to: rinna
Most time, there's nothing to be jealous about!! We'll see what happens with G. Too bad he is so damn physically attractive...totally lean and fit and tattooed and pierced. *swoon*
posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 03.28.05 (8:54 am)
Reply to: lynne
I've stopped counting how many guys have dropped me like a hot potato once their girlfriends said something. I am completely open to becoming friends with the women, too!! I hate jealous girlfriends!!
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