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I'm nice...really...
05.17.05 (11:03 am)   [edit]
I saw [u]Sin City[/u] last night. How gory! I thought the movie was well done (even though I'd never read the comics), but I'm not sure I really liked it. I liked the feel to it, though. The more movies I see with Rosario Dawson, the more I dislike her acting. I saw that with the J Man. That was our third date in a week. I joke that it's really our 4th because our 2nd was so long.

So anyway, this morning on MSN, he was being really short with me, so I asked him what was up. Turns out he felt like he has to be on guard all the time because of my verbal jabs, and he doesn't like it. I thought he was okay with it because he does the same thing. Turns out he doesn't like being that way either. I was really hurt to hear all this stuff because it wasn't my intention to have that effect. When I am comfortable around someone, I joke around a lot, and I can be quite sarcastic. I guess I can throw some zingers, but they're not meant to hurt people.

Then I was like "does he still want to see me?" He told me that if I wanted a guy to volley verbal jabs with, then he wasn't the guy for me. Anyhow, we talked it over, and things are still okay. Phew.

I forget that we've known each other for only a week. He is still learning how to "read me." Apparently, I am difficult for that. It takes me a while to let my guard down with people. I'll try to remember to tone it down..as long as he doesn't do anything to egg me on :wink: He doesn't want me to change if that's the way I am.

After my last real ex, I did vow to be nicer. Sometimes I don't really realise what softies men are. I always threw zingers at him, and I had chalked it up to him being too sensitive. Well, maybe he was :wink: but that is no real excuse for me to not be aware of his feelings.

I voted this morning. I did not realise my riding had a Marijuana Party candidate. How sad is that? I went Green, and I voted Yes for the SVT. I was a little unsure SVT. Both the pros and cons are so valid.

When I went to vote, I ran into a guy who used to work here. I did not remember much about him, but he remembered my name and that I was taking classes :shock: I was like "what was his name again?" :oops:
 


posted by: irishred (reply)
post date: 05.17.05 (11:32 am)

is SVT yet another tax? like PST and GST? ugh!



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 05.17.05 (11:36 am)

Reply to: irishred
SVT is a voting system used in like 3 countries (Malta being one of them) where when you vote, you can put your voting choices in an order instead of just choosing one candidate. BC is voting whether we want to implement such a system!



posted by: irishred (reply)
post date: 05.17.05 (11:42 am)

Reply to: rosietulips

wow!! go canada!!!



posted by: lynne (reply)
post date: 05.17.05 (3:33 pm)

I am the same way. I have a very sarcastic wit at times. I have a group of friends who can be quite insulting when they want to me but it is always done so lovingly that I forget that not everyone appreciates that kind of teasing.



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 05.17.05 (4:31 pm)

Reply to: irishred
It's just a BC thing :) It has to have 60% support in order for us to use the system!!



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 05.17.05 (4:32 pm)

Reply to: lynne
I don't even realise that I am being hurtful because I figure people know I don't mean anything by my words!

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