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| 01.01.04 (3:09 am) [edit] |
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Happy new year, all :D I *was* going to go straight to bed after coming home from Stef's party, but since I wanted to record some thoughts before my feelings went away...here I am!! The booze was freely flowing; everyone had a good time. Let me emphasize the booze was freely flowing. Well, it was for Stef, that's for sure. I can overlook people getting silly because they're impaired, but I do draw the line at disrespect. Because I've never been drunk to the point of losing my mind, I really don't know if I can say this...but can you really blame your own actions purely on alcohol? So...Stef...Everything was cool at the beginning of the party (meaning he pretty much left me alone), but as soon as midnight came around, so did he. He was touchy-feely, and he offered to drive me home ... in the morning. I said, "no, thanks." But he was still all over me. I did the best I could to make sure some line was drawn. It was obvious he was really drunk. So with him trying to grope me and stuff and me moving his hand and telling him to cut it out, he eventually told me that I should "lighten up." For some reason, that really pissed me off. I know I can be pretty quiet and lifeless when I'm not comfortable. Then I said to him, "I think you should leave me alone." And he was like, "what! I'm only here for another week" to which I retorted, "I can't have this conversation now." Then I got up off the couch, and sat down somewhere else. When I am really POed, which is not that often...I get quiet, and I avoid the person I'm POed at. I don't even want to make eye contact. Thank goodness we left shortly after that. I really didn't want to be there anymore. I didn't even bother saying bye to him for fear of saying something I'd regret. I am mad at the situation because: -I felt like a piece of meat. -He was disrespecting my wishes to get out of my personal space. -He put me down for being me. Cussing is something I rarely do as well...but I just want to say "f*ck you, horny ba$tard!!" So...I'm sure my emotions are a little high right now, and I know I will get over what happened, but I have absolutely no interest in being nice to Stef anymore. In my dreams, he can grovel. |
posted by: Ari (reply)
post date: 01.01.04 (4:24 am)
bleach, im sorry he disrespected you..nobody likes that feeling ::sigh:: sometimee you have to relize that " guys think with their other head"
posted by: flaring (reply)
post date: 01.01.04 (6:20 am)
*snort* Too right Ari! My dad says that no man is worth sh*t until he's at least 35 years old. I've met a few upper-30-somethings that give lie to his theory, though.
posted by: irishred (reply)
post date: 01.02.04 (8:30 am)
Although I disagree completely with flaring's dad, this guy was a jerk to you...I am sorry that happened rosie :)
posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 01.02.04 (9:45 am)
Reply to: Ari
Well, I haven't spoken to him since!! I've dealt with guys like him before. Yeeuck.
posted by: Ari (reply)
post date: 01.02.04 (9:46 am)
Reply to: rosietulips
yea, and other ones break hearts
posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 01.02.04 (9:46 am)
Reply to: flaring
Hmm...this guy was 30...Guess he has several years to go!!
posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 01.02.04 (9:48 am)
Reply to: irishred
Yes, he was a big jerk!! But I am over it now :D
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